About Me

This blog came to life over a decade ago when I had to learn how to live with my then 6 year old son, Hayden living in Texas while I was living in Arizona with his two siblings and my now ex-husband. Fast forward all these years and the domain had always stayed as one I renewed year over year. Life has a funny way of making old things new, and this blog proves to be one of those things. 

    My divorce was finalized this April, and in the process of divorce and now learning how to live life on my own terms it made sense to bring JWIF back to life in hopes I would find a place to put my thoughts together while allowing others not to feel alone in whatever they are going through. If you are one of those people, welcome!

As a visitor here, you are part of a fantastic community.You can help others through my blog site in all sort of ways. When you comment on the posts, share with others who you know may need some encouragement or just leave feeling a part of something then it's all worth it to me!

Things to get you started about me and will be important when I reference names lol!

I'm 40 years old, my birthday is November 30,1982

I have 5 kids and they are all mine.

I live in Arizona but came from Texas (grew up in Frisco area). I miss Texas a ton and hope life can get me back there one day.

Michael (my first ex-husband) we were together from when I was 14-21 (broke up when I was 15 for a year)

Michael and I have 3 kids together:

Tayler -22 years old. Son

Analesia - 20 years old. My daughter

Hayden-18 year old. Son

I remarried years later and just got divorced this April- I was with him for 14 years.

My ex-husband  and I share two amazing little boys:

Baker-7 years old

Witten- 5 years old

I'm a full time realtor and have been for years, I love giving back to the community, I'm a believer, and love all things planners, purses and tennis shoes. 

   My rule for social media is I will never post something on here that would later require explaining to any of my kids. I've had this rule since MySpace days and it hasn't left me astray. You can find me on FB, IG, TikTok and YouTube. 

Any questions aren't off the table, so if you ever want me to share tips, tricks, advice or anything just let me know.